Month: October 2015

A Cry for Mercy

Be merciful to me, LORD, for I am faint; O LORD, heal me, for my bones are in agony. My soul is in anguish. How long, O LORD, how long? Turn, O LORD, and deliver me; save me because of your unfailing love. Psalm 6:2-4

The rains have been consistent this morning and I am feeling like the weather, partly cloudy and just a little bit depressed. You see, a branch in my family tree is struggling right now. Struggling with fear, doubt, sadness, possible loss, and wondering can and will Jesus do a miracle. I hear the voice on the other end of the phone and it resonates deep despair and uncertainty. There is nothing that I can do to make it all better. There is nothing that my past experiences can draw from that line up the same, similar but not the same. One thing I do know that is the same, is Jesus is right there in the middle of it with them. He is not far. He is close, real close, whisper to hear close. He feels their pain. He feels the distress coming from them. He feels. He knows.

This branch in my family tree that is having trouble, they mean a lot to me and I love them. And my family tree branch is also part of another family tree that is in the midst of this fight for life. Trying to make the right decisions, trying to keep hope, trying to fight for the life of a son/cousin/brother/grandson/nephew that they love. I am completely overwhelmed with sadness for this family that I care about. This family tree that is also attached to my family tree branch, is hurting, has questions, and wants healing.

Jesus, I know that you are with them. I know that you will never leave them nor will you forsake them. Help them to draw on your strength and might. Help them to hear your voice of love for them and that they feel your arms around them. Hear their prayers of life for this child, your child. You are the One who brings comfort and healing. You are the only One and to your name be the glory of all things. Amen.

****This was originally written two years ago, since that time the above beloved child has passed away over a year ago.  The above family tree members are still struggling with most of the same questions and are still searching for healing but for themselves now.  I personally know the struggle of grief and how long it takes to heal and recover.  I know what it feels like to lose a loved one and cry out for mercy from The Lord.  I continue to pray for this family tree and the family tree branch that connects to mine.  I know that Jesus is with them and working in their lives for an amazing story that will bring Him fame.  I watch and wait as the story continues and the fame is spread.

Your Grief Will Turn To Joy.

John 16-20 Jesus said that I ( you and me) will weep and mourn as the world rejoices but our grief will turn to joy.  Have you ever noticed that when you are going through the worse that everyone around you is laughing, having fun, and falling in love and holding hands?  Why is it when you are going through troubles the sun still shines and the flowers still bloom?The world still turns when you are struggling.  The sun still rises and the stars still shine while your world crumbles around you.

The context in these verses is that Jesus is letting the disciples know that he will be leaving them and that they will grieve over him but that their grief will turn to joy.  Jesus also says in John 16:33  “I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.”  Our grief will turn to joy.  We will overcome trouble. Hope. We just need a little hope to cling to so that we can get to the other side of of these hard times.

Jesus said “you will weep”. My friend would describe this kind of weeping as the “ugly cry”. This is not the cry that has just a few tears coming from your eyes when something touching happens or when you cut yourself and bleed. You know this “ugly” cry; face all contorted, the noises you are making sound like they are coming from the wild, makeup running down your face, eyes all puffy and red when it is all said and done. This is pain. Jesus also said “and mourn”. Some Bible translations say lament.  Webster Dictionary defines mourn as to grieve for; to lament; to deplore; to bemoan; to bewail. Webster dictionary defines lament as grief or sorrow expressed in complaints or cries; lamentation; a wailing; a moaning; a weeping.

But your grief will turn to joy.  The definition of joy is a feeling of great pleasure and happiness.  One day you are going through painful grief, the next day you realize that your joy has returned. That is an amazing feeling.   

The feeling that when the clouds part and the sun shines on your face again. Pure bliss.

When the climb up the mountain, which has been torturous and long, is completed and you look out, the view is spectacular, the darkness has turned to bright colorful lights. You might even be able to look down for a moment on those footsteps that you made climbing up to see answers to some of your questions.  A feeling might come over you that say’s “maybe, just maybe, it might have been good to go through that storm, this trouble, that heartache, or this purpose.” It just does not make sense that you have joy again.  Joy that is completely unexplainable. God’s goodness to you.  His promise that grief would bring weeping and mourning BUT joy will come again.

The Word promises that the joy will return, with that we have hope for each day while in that deep dark place called grief.

Thank you Jesus for new mercies every day and for hope in the times of grief. Help us to look for that hope which will allow us to have bright moments each day during our dark times.  In Jesus’ name  Amen